It's The Queer Sensualist's 3rd birthday! Here are 5 lessons I've learned as a Sensual Intimacy Coach
Happy Pride Month! And Happy Birthday to my toddler coaching business that I birthed 3 years ago. Here's some thing's I've learned, PLUS some limited discounted slots for working with me.
I can’t believe my baby is turning three this month! I launched The Queer Sensualist in 2022. Since then, I have coached over 70 individuals and couples through their journey of sensual intimacy.
I have loved every minute of supporting these beautifully open-minded and open-hearted people, with everything from their relationship concerns, body-image issues, anorgasmia and erectile problems, communication blocks, and sexual dissatisfaction,, as well as offering them guidance toward creating loving relationships, embodied pleasure and access to orgasms, sexual confidence, sensual wellbeing, and reclaiming their sexuality.
Wherever you are at in your own journey, know that you are not alone, and I’m here to help. For now though, here are five key lessons I’ve learned along the way that might already start shift some things for you:
Shame is usually found at the root of our sexual problems; the antidote is pleasure/consent-based sex-ed, community healing, and self-compassion
Our attachment styles are often misguided strategies for keeping love; we all have the capacity for creating more secure attachment in our nervous systems
So many of us are stuck in our heads, disconnecting us in the bedroom; slowing down and building trust with the body allows for more pleasure to occur
We are taught that our bodies and desires are in need of "fixing"; you're not broken and there is no such thing as "normal" - only what's true for you
Hetero-patriarchal messages limit our experience of sex and love; queering definitions expand your capacity for pleasure, 'gasms, and deeper intimacy
You might want to start asking yourself, What are some of the things getting in the way of the intimacy you desire?
If the answer feels unclear, or you simply want someone to reflect on these ideas with, I am offering a few LIMITED discounted slots for my 1:1 program this June to celebrate my baby turning three.
Just know, before you book a call with me, that I personally really love to work with people who are ready and willing to:
UNLEARN the blockages that are holding them back in their intimacy
NOURISH their sensuality and sense of self
CONNECT to their inner confidence and communicate authentically.
Have any questions? Drop me a little message, I promise I don’t bite:
Thank you for reading ‘Pleasure Anxiously’. As a brief reminder, here are some of the offerings & treats I have for you at the moment:
Love this so much!❤️💞🎂
Happy business birthday!!!